Comments on: The End

By: your seester

your seester — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 00:53:15 +0000

And of course, you can always have an attorney do it for you. They don’t seem to mind, as long as you keep it under a few hours.

By: Tiffany

Tiffany — Sat, 26 Jan 2008 14:35:58 +0000

I think it depends on who you’re breaking up with. If it’s somebody who is content to fade away, I let it fade. If she’s a continuing presence, I waffle between trying really hard to fade and having the talk. If she’s caused me harm, in any way, I have the talk. It’s hard to tell someone that they are toxic to you, but sometimes they have to know the consequences. Any time I have “the talk” or when a fader calls, I always have a small aneurysm.

By: brody

brody — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 14:54:06 +0000

I like to fade away. your seester has the best explanation of why I do that.

By: evan

evan — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 00:52:35 +0000

i love ur clean site design.
envy.

By: your seester

your seester — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 17:12:10 +0000

Is this a trick question? I have my “staff meeting” in an hour and even through DH is going to be the primary I was sick about it all last night. I see some cry therapy in my future.

In general, I am a fan of the drifting. A conversation implies a negotiation, and if you’ve already made up your mind, why waste their time (and yours) by saying things no one wants to say, really, and no one in their right mind would want to hear. Hakuna Matata indeed.

Besides, more than once I’ve drifted back.